There Must Be Something...

There must be something about me that makes men become quickly and easily infatuated. No, I'm not really tooting any horns here, just dissecting a rather obvious conclusion I've come to. And, the problem with this, is that it usually happens with guys I have no interest in that way. Maybe that's when I can be more myself or something. I don't know. But what I do know is that I attract a wide array of different men to a state I can only define as infatuation or wonderlust.

Here's why I think that is...I am friendly, I am approachable. I am not stick-thin (or even close), and do not look like a stripper. I smile. I debate. I care. I am intelligent, and it shows when I open my mouth. I have respect for people without knowing them. I like to laugh, and make people laugh. I am sarcastic without being surly. I am open. And I like to love.

There just aren't very many people who capture these qualities and use them as I do. And when two people meet, and can relate these qualities, appreciate them, infatuation happens. I just happen to be a female, so men are more apt to pay attention to all of that when it crosses their paths. What I mean by that is....I have breasts, along with all the other stuff, so men perk up a little more than if it was some random dude sitting next to them in a bar and striking up a conversation.

What I'd like to figure out is how to make the RIGHT man become infatuated with me. Not just every man, or any man, but.....the right man.